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A Guide to Speed Dating
Speed dating is a relatively new dating method that has proven successful to this point. If you are new to the dating scene and live in a larger city you surely want to check out speed dating. It is easy, fun and a lot more effective than picking someone up and a smoky bar, grocery store or one of those 'never successful' blind dates.
There are, however, some tips that can help you out when embarking on a speed dating adventure. Ensuring these things are in order can help you not only get a date, but have a lasting relationship with your new partner. Consider this guide to speed dating, employ the techniques and have a great time.
Just like in any other dating scenario potential dates will be looking at your appearance. Now this does not only mean how handsome or pretty that you are, but also how you keep yourself, dress and the all important hygiene. Its essential that you make a good first impression because it is the difference between having someone that is interested in you or sitting alone for another Friday night. Here are some great tips that can enhance your speed dating and find you a mate at record speed.
A guide to speed dating tip #1Your hygiene is an absolute must in any social, dating or other experience with people. If you a ride to a speed dating session with unkept hair, food in your teeth or dirty clothes others will likely assume that you are a slob and write you off. For a man if your nails are dirty, make sure that you rectify this before that date. Dirty nails or hands signify a laborer to women and may scare them off. Now you may be a laborer and are not concerned whether she knows or not what you do for a living. That is fine there is nothing wrong with working hard making an honest a living, but it is important that she sees you can separate your career from your personal life and take your hygiene very seriously. Plus, it is very dirty and there are a ton of germs that hide away underneath dirty fingernails so do yourself a favor and clip and clean them.
Hair that is too long, glittered or not clean is also not a good thing. This can signify you're not concerned with your look and give off an unorganized type of attitude. Neither one of these thoughts is something that you want going through your dates mind.
A guide to speed dating tip #2Since you are only given an allotted amount of time with each individual make sure that you plan your conversation before hand. It is a good idea to make a list of questions or comments that you find important before the date ever arrives. This can help in the matchmaking process and ensure that you find someone that is suitable for you. It is perfectly acceptable to take in a list of questions or other things that you would like to know about the person. Avoid personal questions that could be considered a prying attempt. You do not want to appear as a stalker, but you do want to get a good idea of the person themselves.
A guide to speed dating tip #3Do not be rude if you are not interested in someone or the conversation is not going well. Always be polite. If you make a scene or are ugly to someone the woman or man of your dreams may see this which can be a huge turn off to most people. There is never any need to hurt someone's feelings or say something ugly just because you are not interested. You are only with each person a short amount of time so you can endure a conversation to avoid hurting the other person's feelings.
Speed dating is very exciting and can lead to a life of happiness with the person of your dreams. You must make sure that you present yourself properly, ask the correct questions and be polite.